Beware, 1500-word essay incoming.
I was actually just thinking of this topic yesterday, before @BlackHayate02 brought it up again here. I was thinking about how my opinion on H-scenes changed even just over the span of time when this thread was first active, but even more so how it has changed to date. And I think that’s OK: even if I had originally been 100% opposed to H-scenes and was now all for them, it would be OK to change. We are all constantly having new experiences that affect our mindsets on everything in various ways.
Anyways, I was pondering: Why is having sex scenes in the VN medium so controversial, and is often seen as a major barrier for many people against exploring the greatness and depth of the medium, while American TV shows such as Game of Thrones (really great show, by the way) are highly praised and accepted, despite also having gratuitous sex and nudity that doesn’t seem to necessarily further the plot?
I personally think sex and sexuality are a topic that need to be explored in media. They are special, human themes that are relevant to all of our lives, whether we want to face it or not. Hell, usually its the media’s job to shove things we dont necessarily want to face in our, well, face. I appreciate that VNs, so often heavily dealing with romance, recognize, as many other mediums often do, that usually romance involves sex. And yet it all so often seems so… tasteless, or tactless. That fact isn’t limited to VNs, but with VNs specifically the problem seems to stem from the explicivity of the sex. The fact of the matter is, the large majority of H-scenes seem like just porn, even in the rare case where it wasn’t meant to be.
But still, how are H-scenes in VNs different from Kahleesi walking around naked or full-frontally having sex in Game of Thrones? As discussed several times before in the many posts of this topic above, you dont necessarily need to be explicit to portray sex, nudity and their implications, although perhaps explicivity does intensify the themes. Well, the first thing that comes to mind is length. Sex or nude scenes in Game of Thrones, as in most movies and TV shows, are a few seconds long to a minute or so at the most. Most VN H-scenes, however, last for several minutes. Another part is movement. Shows and movies can constantly switch camera angles, repeatedly causing the brain to recalculate and makes the viewer not feel so much as if they were staring; as opposed to VNs, where the reader is continuously focused point blank: it intensifies the image. Lastly, despite being pixelated, there’s no denying that VNs often blatantly show off genitalia, while shows and movies often even make a point of avoiding showing that. Whether or not it is rightful that actually seeing genitalia makes people more uncomfortable than seeing breasts and simply the motion of having sex, it certainly seems to lend itself to being more porn-like. (There’s also the fact that VN images are not real people, they’re drawn. This could possibly make some people more uncomfortable, while others less, so I wont get into that.)
Ok, so thats all well and good. Maybe the fact that it seems like porn affects you, maybe it doesn’t. Either way, it should still be getting the same messages of sex and sexuality across… right? Then why does it feel so… off? Why is this ineffective at conveying the themes? Well, first of all, whether we like it or not, society and culture has shaped our minds to think about sex in a certain way. This extends to porn specifically as well: whether you personally think it’s wrong, or dont care much either way, or whatever, everyone seems to agree on two general things: it should be hidden, and it’s kinda shameful to watch it. Either way, its not really something you… talk about. Thus, when a serious story is chugging along, and suddenly it starts to seem like porn, it’s off-putting. Even if you know its coming, and even if you believe its still trying to convey x message, your mind still thinks, “This isnt supposed to be here.”
The second part is probably level of arousal. Im not really referring to this on the conscious level, although that can be a factor too. I’m referring hormonal instincts here. In your brain, sex = dopamine (otherwise known as the feel-good chemical). Up to a certain point, the longer and more intensely your brain is exposed to sex or the idea of it, the more testosterone, estrogen, and endorphines its going to start pumping. And, if your brain is familiar with porn, this is gonna click even faster, because your brain has already established a pathway for that. The problem is, these hormones tend to take precedent over whatever else from the rest of the experience may be affecting your brain at that moment, due to there instinctual nature. To put it simply, the explicivity can counteract the very themes the scene was trying to convey (again, this is supposing the scene was trying to convey any such themes at all).
So, assuming that at this point you agree with me that H-scenes do certainly seem more like porn than nude/sex scenes in movies and shows, and assuming that you agree with me that we would probably be able to get more out of them if they were more like their TV counterparts, why are we still stuck with what we’ve got? Well, for one, VNs started out all almost all games that were supposed to be porn! And theres still a relatively sizable market for such games today. At this point, a VN with sex in it, whether its for the porn or not, is expected to be conveyed in the traditional way. Are we starting to get away from this, especially with the recent shift toward selling to the Western market? I would say yes, we could be.
However, I think to a certain, though lesser extent, perhaps the audience needs to change a bit as well. Most of us, whether we admit it or not, are probably wary of seeing sex and sexuality expressed in media because it’s taking something private, and making it public. Some people will inevitably say: “Well of course I feel that way! Nobody ever explicitly shows a person going to the bathroom in media!” To which I respond: “Urination and defecation don’t create life!” Aha! Life. Thats the answer. Why are sex and sexuality so important? Life. Why do they deserve to be expressed in our media, which is supposed to be an expression ourselves and our culture? Life. And what are we taking for granted that causes us, as a society, to be so scared of portraying sex and sexuality in a thoughtful way in media? LIFE.
I realize that I’ve gone from seemingly academic and scientific to almost religious and philosophical in the blink of an eye, but really this is what makes this topic so important to me. Life is kinda essential in case you haven’t noticed, and at some point, it is inevitably taken for granted by everyone who has it. In fact, I would love to discuss why the fact that the foremost purpose of sex is to create life is so often ignored in media, especially VNs, but that will definitely have to be saved for another time.
For now, I leave you with this: Sometimes sex is added to media just to make it seem more “mature.” Some intelligent people say that adding it for such reasons and in the usual way is in fact immature. Im not positive I agree with either stance though. Sex and sexuality need to be acknowledged, for sure, and I admire VNs for doing so. But just existing is not good enough, and I am certainly not satisfied with the way it is currently handled. And as much as I’ve rambled today, and before, we havent even begun to touch on all of the facets this subject entails. This isnt something that just changes. It took until halfway through the 20th century just to show a married couple sleeping in the same bed on TV. But I believe it will change, as long as we, not only as consumers, but as a society, allow it to.
By the way, if your interested, Extra Credits has done a video on Sex in Video Games, which is, as usual, thoughtful and well expressed. Its probably very relevant to how sex and sexuality are portrayed in VNs, although maybe to a lesser extent in your typical video game. Check it out here if you’re interested.