I honestly think that it is impossible to really feel what a character feels because we do not share their experiences. We cannot do this because our feelings are reactions to certain events, and our reactions are shaped by our past experiences. What I do think we feel when we read VNs in first-person is empathy. We empathize with the character because of the way the story is written. That being said, I don’t think we need the nitty-gritty details of intercourse in order to empathize with the emotions the character feels when it happens.
That is just my opinion, though. I must admit, that is an insight that I neglected to take into account, and I thank you for that.
Ah, yes, touché. That becomes unethical, not because of the content, but because it is a breach of privacy between two people.
